tony,
i am truly saddened to hear of this news. i cannot say anything that will make you feel better, and so i won't. instead i hope that in the coming days, weeks, months, and years, you will be able to look back and smile at the beauty that you were able to share with your wife and pass it along to your child. all the positive energy of the universe in your direction. the same to your loved ones touched by this event.