I live in London and have been supporting Spurs my entire life - it's not easy as people have alluded to; we've got a deserved reputation for being the nearly, but not quite there, team of the league, which sucks, personified by finishing 4th a few seasons ago only to see our champions league spot (for top 4 finishers) go to Chelsea who finished fifth that year but miraculously won the whole thing with a nobody as head coach. That's never happened before but typical that it's Spurs on the receiving end..
But, we are definitely a big club - one of only 6 teams in the prem never to be relegated - with a (hopefully - but never say that when it comes to the Spurs!) bright future; a new stadium is being built, we've got the best training facilities in England, and have a new coach (no surprise there) who looks to be a keeper and seems to have a knack for getting the most out of young players. See all of Southampton last year and Kane, mason and bentaleb this year.
And while it's true we're a 'selling' club (but, by definition, everybody excluding city, barca and Madrid is) the rumour on the grape vine is that we're going to overcome this by 'breeding' homegrown players who only want to play for us, with Kane being the first of this 'type' of player. Nice idea, let's see how reality plays out when Madrid come calling for a player again with a massive fee and massive wages (losing Modric and Bale to them killed us over the last few years - which is why we're trying the 'new approach').
And that there is the reason for Spurs relative underachievement - we don't pay the high player salaries of the bigger clubs; city, Chelsea, Man U, arsenal and Liverpool, which is unlikely to change unless we get a big time new owner (which will probably happen soon - joe Lewis the existing owner is looking to sell), a new stadium (just started being built / finished in time for 2018 season) and regular champions league football, which could happen if Man United losing ferguson is anything to go by; Arsenal, the other club on the same side of town, may be in trouble once Wenger goes - 18 years straight of champions league football he's achieved - which might give an opportunity for Spurs. And the pecking order in the deeply capitalist premier league changes; just look at Liverpool..
But Arsenal are definitely the easier team to support and no one would blame you for band wagonning them - my experience with Spurs has definitely been frustrating but the thrill of the Bale and Modric years keeps me going and gives me hope that we can breed / recruit good talent in the future, and I like the direction of our club right now. But I'm a Spurs fan and I say that every year...
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