Cannot believe some of the stuff being posted in this thread.
Was Kobe driven? Yes. On the court that meant having a killer mentality. Being arrogant and having things his way. Dominating those around him (even teammates at times). Off the court? Yes and no. I believe he likely didn't separate who he was on the court and who he was off the court much when he was younger and even in the first few years of being married and becoming a father. It's just something that's hard for people to do. Beyond the Colorado incident, things were definitely rocky for some time for Kobe and his wife. Vanessa even filed for divorce as recently as December of 2011 and it wasn't called off until January of 2013. To put things into perspective, the Colorado incident, trial, settlement, etc. was from June 2003 to March of 2005. Everyone painted this picture of Kobe settling out of court and buying his wife a huge diamond (apology) ring and everything was just peachy after that. Life usually isn't that simple. They clearly had issues that went on for many years, but - by all accounts - in the most recent stage of his life they had blossomed as a couple and as a family. They had two more girls and Kobe seemed focused on being a husband and a girl dad in his retirement years. He seemed more laid back and had accepted a background role. He didn't want the spotlight unless it was to promote a charity or girl's/women's basketball. Since he passed so many stories have come out with people having positive interactions with him off the court. In nearly every story he is asking about the other person's children or directly helping other people with family questions, etc. As the Lakers fan who likely gave Kobe more crap than anyone else on this board after Colorado (wanted him off my team, rooted for the Lakers despite him, etc) I have to speak up and say that there is no way - in my opinion (but backed up with facts) - that this newest version of Kobe does ANYTHING in that helicopter to endanger his family or the families of the other passengers.
BIM
Was Kobe driven? Yes. On the court that meant having a killer mentality. Being arrogant and having things his way. Dominating those around him (even teammates at times). Off the court? Yes and no. I believe he likely didn't separate who he was on the court and who he was off the court much when he was younger and even in the first few years of being married and becoming a father. It's just something that's hard for people to do. Beyond the Colorado incident, things were definitely rocky for some time for Kobe and his wife. Vanessa even filed for divorce as recently as December of 2011 and it wasn't called off until January of 2013. To put things into perspective, the Colorado incident, trial, settlement, etc. was from June 2003 to March of 2005. Everyone painted this picture of Kobe settling out of court and buying his wife a huge diamond (apology) ring and everything was just peachy after that. Life usually isn't that simple. They clearly had issues that went on for many years, but - by all accounts - in the most recent stage of his life they had blossomed as a couple and as a family. They had two more girls and Kobe seemed focused on being a husband and a girl dad in his retirement years. He seemed more laid back and had accepted a background role. He didn't want the spotlight unless it was to promote a charity or girl's/women's basketball. Since he passed so many stories have come out with people having positive interactions with him off the court. In nearly every story he is asking about the other person's children or directly helping other people with family questions, etc. As the Lakers fan who likely gave Kobe more crap than anyone else on this board after Colorado (wanted him off my team, rooted for the Lakers despite him, etc) I have to speak up and say that there is no way - in my opinion (but backed up with facts) - that this newest version of Kobe does ANYTHING in that helicopter to endanger his family or the families of the other passengers.
BIM