John, thanks for the reply!
I went through flight school at a Joint Pilot Training site in Corpus Christi Tx and flew with a bunch of KC-135 and Herc drivers. One of my best friends in the world is an H-model pilot (currently on embassy duty). You have an impressive list of platforms! Now-a-days we are lucky to get rides in as many as you actually flew. My meager list is T-34C, T-44, TC-12, P-3C, and S-3s (trainer, trainer, trainer, anti-sub, anti-sub).
I've had the chance to hear parts of my father-in-law's Vietnam story at various points over the last 20-odd years. It begins on 17 Oct 1965, when 3 of 6 F-4s off of the Independence were shot down on a daytime bombing mission against a bridge near Thai Nguyen. As the story goes... there was a reconissiance flight the day before the mission. Over night the Viet Cong towed in a dozen AAA batteries so that when the F-4s came in on their bombing run, they were dead meat. He has perfect clarity of the shootdown and ejection - said it sounded like a pencil repeatedly getting punched through alumnium foil, then the Christmas tree lit up (warning lights), the cockpit filled with smoke, and he heard eject, eject, eject. He said the last memory he had before the ejection was being taught at prototype that "the safe ejection speed was around 250 kts, but you could punch out at up to 550 kts and survive" then his eyeballs flashed to the pitot static gauge and he thought to himself "this is gonna hurt."
His "capture" was by local villagers who held him overnnight before regulars showed up with a truck to take him to one of the bigger camps. The reason I put capture in quotes is because his body was thrashed fromt he ejection. Knees, back, shoulders were all busted up so when his parachute landed in the middle of a filed with locals all around, there wasn't much he could do. He said he recalled hearing rescue efforts on his hand held and was later briefed that they came very close to recovery, but never made it.
Several years later (at the Hanoi Hilton) he ran into 3 of the surviving crewmen who were shot down on the same mission... never knowing they were alive. They all made it out in Feb 1973, they all went back into the cockpit and retired from the Navy, and they remain very close friends. Many years later they all had daughters. And the daughters still stay in contact (in fact, one of 'em is married to a fellow aviator, we live in the same neighborhood, and our children play together).
Every year the POWs get together (often at Ross Perot's ranch) and honor their fallen comrades. I've been lucky enough to go to 2 reunions... it is a humbling experience. Very down to earth characters and most of them lead very successful lives after the military.
Take care!