Ex-NBA player John Amaechi to come out publically

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He will announce he is gay in an upcoming book and also will announce it this Sunday on Outside the Lines on ESPN.

The book is entitled "Man in the Middle.

Amaechi, who retired in 2003, will become the first player who has played in the NBA to disclose that they are gay.

This isn't hardly shocking. When I attended Penn State, there were all sorts of rumors floating around that he dated a member of the football team. Good move for John, having the cajones to come forward and admit he is what he is.
 
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I copied and pasted the headline.. Guess I should have paid attention to it eh?
 

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NEW YORK: John Amaechi is gay, and now the first player in the National Basketball Association to disclose his homosexuality publicly is ready to talk about it.

Amaechi, a British center who played five seasons with four different U.S. teams and helped England to the bronze medal at last year's Commonwealth Games, is scheduled to appear Sunday on the Outside the Lines program on the U.S. sports cable channel ESPN. His autobiography "Man in the Middle," will be released Feb. 14.

"He is coming out of the closet as a gay man," Amaechi's publicist Howard Bragman said Wednesday.

Three years after his playing career ended, Amaechi has become the sixth professional male athlete from one of the four major American sports leagues (NBA, Major League Baseball, National Football League, National Hockey League) to publicly discuss his homosexuality.

Former NFL running back David Kopay publicly declared his homosexuality in 1977; offensive lineman Roy Simmons and defensive lineman Esera Tuaolo did so more recently. Glenn Burke, an outfielder for the Los Angeles Dodgers and the Oakland A's in the 1970s, and Billy Bean, a utility player in the 1980s and 1990s, also have made public declarations.

In his book, Amaechi describes being gay in a league where it is assumed that all players are heterosexual. He writes that while playing in Utah, coach Jerry Sloan used anti-gay innuendo to describe him.

Sloan said Wednesday that although his relationship with Amaechi was "shaky" because of the player's attitude, he didn't know Amaechi was gay. Sloan had no comment about Amaechi's contention in the book that Sloan used anti-gay innuendo when referring to him. Amaechi said he found out about it in e-mails from friends in the Jazz front office.

When asked if knowing Amaechi was gay would have mattered, Sloan said: "Oh yeah, it would have probably mattered. I don't know exactly, but I always have peoples' feelings at heart. People do what they want to do. I don't have a problem with that."

Amaechi, 36, played 301 NBA games over five seasons. The 2.08-meter (6-foot-10) center averaged 6.2 points and 2.6 rebounds in the NBA.

After playing U.S. college ball at Penn State University, he began his NBA career with the Cleveland Cavaliers in 1995-96, then played with five teams over three seasons in Europe (Cholet and Limoges in France, Kinder Bologna in Italy, Greece's Panathinaikos and England's Sheffield Sharks.)

He rejoined the NBA to play for the Orlando Magic from 1999-01, then played two seasons for the Utah Jazz.

The Jazz traded him to Houston, which traded him to the New York Knicks. When the Knicks waived him in January 2004, he retired. He came out of retirement to play for England in last year's Commonwealth Games in Melbourne, Australia.
 

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Are you sure it's not Don Ameche?
 
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In the book and in his interview, Amaechi called Jazz owner Larry Miller a "bigot," said former teammate Karl Malone was a xenophobe and said coach Jerry Sloan "hated" him.

Amaechi also spoke fondly of former teammate Greg Ostertag, who he said was the only player ever to ask him if he was gay (Amaechi answered: You have nothing to worry about Greg"), as well as another former teammate he calls "Malinka" (Russian for "little one") who Amaechi felt was aware and accepting of his alternative lifestyle. Amaechi's publicist, Howard Bragman, confirmed to ESPN.com that the player was Andrei Kirilenko.

"Some time after Christmas of my last Utah season, as the team was sliding out of contention, Malinka instant-messaged an invitation to his New Year's Eve party, explaining he was only inviting his 'favorite' friends. Then he wrote something that brought tears to my eyes: 'Please come, John. You are welcome to bring your partner, if you have one, someone special to you. Who it is makes no difference to me,' " Amaechi wrote. "I was hosting my own party that night, so I had to decline his sweet invitation. But I was moved. I had Ryan deliver Malinka a $500 bottle of Jean Paul Gaulthier-dressed champagne.
 

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In the book and in his interview, Amaechi called Jazz owner Larry Miller a "bigot," said former teammate Karl Malone was a xenophobe and said coach Jerry Sloan "hated" him.

No suprise on Miller - scum of the earth.
 

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In other news, Don Ameche is not gay, much to the relief of Jessica Tandy
 

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Amaechi, AK47, Ostertag :thumbup:
Sloan, Miller, Malone :mad:
 

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Three years after his playing career ended, Amaechi has become the sixth professional male athlete from one of the four major American sports leagues ... to publicly discuss his homosexuality.

I find it somewhat disturbing that people have been keeping track for 30 years of exactly how many former professional athletes have come out of the closet. It's the 21st century. Move on.
 

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Three years after his playing career ended, Amaechi has become the sixth professional male athlete from one of the four major American sports leagues ... to publicly discuss his homosexuality.

I find it somewhat disturbing that people have been keeping track for 30 years of exactly how many former professional athletes have come out of the closet. It's the 21st century. Move on.

Unfortunately, it is still a big deal. Homophobia is still rampant in sports, more so than society in general.
 

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Three years after his playing career ended, Amaechi has become the sixth professional male athlete from one of the four major American sports leagues ... to publicly discuss his homosexuality.

I find it somewhat disturbing that people have been keeping track for 30 years of exactly how many former professional athletes have come out of the closet. It's the 21st century. Move on.

LZ Granderson from Page 2 had a pretty good article here in the same vein. He mentions in the article that he is 'out', but he says that until someone comes out while they are playing, it really shouldn't be a story. Definetly an interesting read.

It is still sad to me that in 2007, things like this and of similar ilk (like race), are still considered news worthy. You would think by now, we as a society could simply judge by the substance of the person and not by their sexual preference or skin color. Unfortunately, that is not our reality, I guess.
 

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This is a legitimate sports issue, so it stays for now. If it degenerates along religious or political lines, the thread goes to the P&R board.
 

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I would say he had major cajones if he came out while he was in the league. Right now it's hard to estimate the proportion of being brave to wanting money. It's sad that people have to act abnormally to avoid contempt and retribution.
 

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I would say he had major cajones if he came out while he was in the league. Right now it's hard to estimate the proportion of being brave to wanting money. It's sad that people have to act abnormally to avoid contempt and retribution.

As fans, we should just care if they are a good player.
I can see how it might be an issue in the locker room for some ill informed atheletes.
It's ironic that some of the same guys who ogle and wolf whistle at females who DON'T want that kind of attention are unnerved if it's directed at THEM.
These big strong jocks can't actually be afraid, can they?
 
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