Stout
Hold onto the ball, Murray!
Originally posted by Chaplin
Respond like what? What the hell are you talking about? He posted that he EXPECTED posts back that were contrary to his own opinion--that's what happened. I NEVER once said he was an idiot, didn't know what he's talking about, etc. You and I have been through that as well. If that's the way he took it (or you in the past), and I know it sounds cold, but I don't care. If you want to read a damn message board and start crying that I'm demeaning you or whatever, go ahead. Just know that that has never been my intention.
What I'm tired of, is the complaining and whining of certain people that can't handle a DISCUSSION. Because this is just a message board, that's all it is, but then some people come on and make a big freaking deal about it and think I'm yelling, when in fact I'm just typing.
I'm passionate about movies--sue me. It's my work, it's what I went to school for--it's what I DO. You don't see me ragging on whatever it is YOU do, do you?
I'm just sick and ******* tired of apologizing for myself all because you guys can't handle a little bit of an opposite opinion. Lecture me all you want, but I am sick and tired of it.
I wrote a legible and IMO intelligent response that he returned with the sarcasm and complaining that I always get to my posts. Why? I never invite sarcastic comments and complaining about how I'm demeaning people. I NEVER call people names. NEVER.
Maybe this board WOULD be a better place if I just didn't post anymore. I mean, then EVERYONE would agree about movies I guess. Kinda defeats the purpose of a message board, don't you think? Everyone has different insights to different things, especially movies. Yet, I'm the one who gets attacked, and I'M the one everyone thinks is the mean, spiteful one, when simply, I post an opinion that is contrary to many others, and those people simply can't handle it and decide to make me out as an attacker.
Easy there, Chap. I was just making a personal observation, and not personally getting huffy. Just observing that though you hold superb movie knowledge, when you don't agree with people, you make it sound as if there IS no contrary position. That's all. People could misread it, sure, and think you're being arrogant when you're not. I'm sure I've done it before too, but I was merely pointing out an observation.
Now, I think if you'd post things as your opinion, it would help a lot. Lots of things you say come across as 'you're right, and there is no dissenting opinion'. I get that it comes from your knowledge, and I'm cool with that. Heck, I even come across that way sometimes too, but I try my best not too.
Calm down, man. I'm sure the others (myself included) can try and be a little more civil as well and maybe, just maybe, we can all just get along. Just try to come across as more opinionated and less 'end-all be-all right', and it'll be all hunky dory