Incorrect cause and effect. Men don't have to be stupid, sexist, etc. That is their choice. In the past, women, minorities, etc suffered in silence as second class citizens. You are saying in your world, the only way to make things right is to elevate the straight white male back to his previous position of power and privilege, and the concerns of others are not important.
It sounds like it is the male that can not adjust to the new realities of equality, and they are the ones that need to GROW UP.
I grew up in a two-parent household, where my mom and dad were equal, both worked, both did housework, etc. All four of us kids turned out to be very productive members of society. Many families break up because either the woman isn't willing to suffer abuse that she normally would keep quiet about, or the man can't be bothered to be the provider.