You’re talking about a KID who already lost his MOTHER two years earlier. If you don’t think that would make a kid cling closer to his father, especially at a time when a pandemic is killing thousands of people a day, I can only question your priorities re: your relationship with your own parents, not his.
My priorities are looking after family.
The difference between going 10th or 20th is around 35%, or $6 million. That sets my family for life.
I can protect my Dad better and make more money by not seeing him for 5 months. So damn right that's what I'd do and my dad would say the same.
But I'm not judging him for his decision despite your needless attack.