Nash's motives should be for his own benefit, not for that of the team. By leaving, he incidentally helps the team. Is that difficult to grasp?
But he can do that just as well this summer. Unless the team chose to trade him, he probably would rather just play out the remainder of his contract and leave as FA than demand a trade midway through his final season and then feel like he bailed on a team when they were at their worst for his own benefit. Is
that so difficult to grasp? That he might have different set of priorities or values than you?
Nash should leave the Suns because his time here is wasted, and there is no point in a player of his skills/age to play for a garbage team. (Which is why he'd never want to be traded to another garbage team at this point, and justifiably so)
He cannot leave the team while still being under contract. He can only
force his way out, even if the Suns would be happy to oblige, even if the fans and media would perfectly understand. And no matter how you may feel about it, he has said many times it is not what he feels comfortable doing, although he never said he would be against the idea if that's what the Suns wanted. How can you fault a guy for not being selfish enough to quit on a team while still under contract? Oh, right, when it happens to interfere with what you think is best for the team.
I believe you've watched sports for awhile, but this is incredibly naive. Players force trades all the time. Lots of times, they don't even have to, and it's a mutually agreed upon decision for a variety of reasons. It happens ALL THE TIME.
Just because it happens a lot, doesn't mean that every player feels it is his option. Don't you get that? Technically, no player has that option, but they force trades because teams don't want to pay unhappy players or because they don't want to lose those players for nothing. That is not how it should work. You sign a guaranteed contract, you play for that team for the duration, unless the team chooses to trade you which is their option. Fortunately, not every player feels comfortable bailing on a team so that he can put himself in a more favorable situation, even if no one would actually perceive it as bailing. Let me ask you this. You say it's perfectly normal and understandable for a player to demand a trade. Let's say Nash does ask for a trade, the Suns get number one pick and draft Anthony Davis. Then a year before his final season he demands a trade to a large-market team. Would you be perfectly understanding then? Would you feel like it is his option since players do it all the time?
Essentially for whatever reason, good or bad, the Suns so far have refused to trade Nash. So you want Nash, at the expense of his own pride, to bail them out by demanding a trade to make it easy on them. And you justify that by saying it is for his own benefit too, as if his values and priorities were the same as yours. But that's just not the case. Nash is free to leave this summer when his contract is up. He only has three more months to go. Oh, but that won't help getting the Suns more ping pong balls in the lottery this year. Well, it is not his job nor responsibility to get out of the way so that the Suns can get a high draft pick. If the Suns really wanted to lose as many games as possible, which I doubt, they need to be the ones to make that move. And Nash made it clear he won't object to it. The ball is in their court.