There was a brief time when I respected lebron james...but I almost immediately lost it. It was early in his career, his first stint with the Cavaliers. According to reports, his teammate Ira Newble approached him to sign a petition about the Darfur genocide. james declined to sign the petition, telling Newble that he did not know enough about the situation. I was impressed: james was humble enough to admit his ignorance. But people (possibly other teammates) heard, and criticized him. He very quickly figured out that he was expected to cooperate, and made a pompous statement to the media about it being about human lives at the end of the day. (Who knew?) I groaned.
I respect the late Kobe Bryant's personality more. As nasty and obnoxious as Bryant was on the court, he was more like Jordan off the court, minding his own business. Bryant probably did many good works, but didn't try to make sure the world heard about them. Didn't try to make the world know what a good person he was. Only after Bryant died did I learn that Bryant was a dedicated family man and a practicing Catholic. I find this honest and unpretentious. Ever since the alleged rape, Bryant seemed to be a jerk only on the court.