Josh Selby was 12, his mother just 29 and jobless. They were borderline homeless, moving from spot to spot. His father had never been involved in his life.
Selby would get in fights all the time, he says. Walking home from school one day, he saw a close friend pistol-whipped.
“One more time, he would have died,” Selby said. “I was about 12. After that, I got crazy. To see that at that age, I was losing it. I’m not gonna lie. I was really losing it, being disrespectful to my mother, just doing anything I wanted, like a little thug.”
They were living in West Baltimore then, and Selby was often picked on because he was from the east side. But the pettiness faded during pickup basketball games on the concrete court at Beechfield Elementary. Regulars there started calling him “Little Future” because he’d play against the adults and take their best shot.
“By my actions on the court, the way I played, I really didn’t get messed with,” Selby said. “It was like all the old people, the older thugs and old hustlers, they were kind of (looking after) me … ‘Nobody mess with him. He got a bright future. Leave him alone.’ Basketball took me a long way.”
But it would only take him so far in his current living situation. He and his mom were staying with an acquaintance, thankful for every meal they got.
“I felt embarrassed,” Witherspoon recalled. “I felt humiliated, less of a parent. This is really not how I want my kid to live.”
Her breaking point came when Selby failed seventh grade. Witherspoon began to notice a change in her son. She decided to move in with her mother and take Josh away from the drug- and crime-infested neighborhood of Irvington they’d called home for about a year and a half.
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