I have no doubt that the Wolves asked about Amare, so obviously there was discussion. I'm also sure that one of the objections the Suns gave had to do with laving him in the conference, which is why they tried to rope in the Hawks.
The only question is whether the Suns explicitly offered Amare. For McHale to turn down Amare, there had to be an offer from the Suns on the table. Nothing has been said that suggests there actually was one.
The question is not whether the Wolves prefered to get Jefferson, I think Joe is right. Jefferson is much cheaper, does not have a history of injuries, and may be easier to get along with. But the article went further and said McHale rejected the Amare "offer", presumably holding out for Jefferson. I don't buy it.
Let's put it this way. I believe the talks including Amare went both ways. I don't believe that the Phoenix Suns immediately shot down any and all talks of trading Amare Stoudemire. I also believe it's entirely possible that McHale had the choice between a deal with the Celtics involving Jefferson and a deal with the Phoenix Suns including Amare Stoudemire, and he thought the prior was a better deal for their team.
Joe Mama