Just depends on what you want to do. I think this is an important "big picture" situation that the Cardinals have historically lost. Giving in to a player's demands, especially when they aren't truly being mistreated, sets a bad precedent. The Cardinals are in the driver's seat on this one.
Boldin can be unhappy 6 days a week as long as he performs on Sunday or he can shut it down and be given the Keyshawn treatment for being detrimental to the team. Giving in to his tantrums doesn't really benefit the team because the Cardinals are never going to get equal value.
Like I said, at this point if a trade is made they are just washing their hands of him(unless some miracle Roy Williams trade is offered which I don't see happening since it completely blew up in the Cowboys' face). If they do that, then they lose in the short term and the long run.
I agree that having him turn into a cancer would be a bad thing but Edge was hardly a positive influence for much of this year and in the end, disciplining him for breaking team rules sent a message and whether it's a contract or a dose of reality, he is certainly more motivated than he was before.
but Edge NEVER did anything in public like Q has done. Yeah, we're in the driver's seat... to get better by letting Q go. They didn't give in to his demands last year, they held firm, found out they would actually be just as good if not BETTER without him and no realize they can continue to get better. They've made their point... now the point is to get better.
I mean, you said the Bengals did it right... but look at how awful that team is and how they can't get any better now because of the situation. Sometimes, it's just better to have a parting of the ways. Hell, I think it's better to trade Boldin anyway as he's injury prone, getting older and we've got more important people to give scratch to on the team.
and I don't think they need to "wash their hands" of him. But I DON'T think they need to get all the Lions got for Williams either. There's a middle ground. It's all about getting better and having Boldin on this team... or even worse, holding out and then him coming back at the end of training camp only to be out of shape and pull a hammy or do whatever injury's coming next which sacrifices a spot on the team which could be used to make us better just makes no sense to me.
again, you point to the Bengals, but now that team is screwed, locked in with a guy who's getting older, has little skill and is just a drag on the team. I don't want that on my ball-club. Shape up, or ship his ass out.