As I see it, the team with the best chance for Kobe is probably still the Lakers. The main problem there is that he wouldn't have the leverage to force changes, but he could easily sign another deal with an opt-out two or three years from now, when he'd be in a much better position to make demands of the team.
The Clips are #2, I'm guessing. They should have no problem clearing salary--just non-tender the fight buddies, Dooling and QRich--and Sterling would be thrilled to have Kobe and the profit-making buzz he brings.
If Kobe leaves the Lakers, it will be for the challenge of succeeding on his own, and the Clippers offer the biggest challenge, with the greatest potential reward (in terms of recognition) if he's successful. Also, Sterling would probably be willing to sign the team over to Kobe as
de facto President and GM if that's what Kobe demands. It doesn't hurt the Clips chances that they play in the same gym as the Lakers--Kobe can maintain the cocoon he has supposedly developed, and he'll be rubbing his new success in his detractors' faces...
Phoenix is probably #3, because it's the most attractive non-LA destination, there's talent there, and Jerry C will sell himself harder than any of the other owners.
I think Denver took themselves out of the race entirely when the crowd booed Kobe earlier this year--MJ never forgot those kinds of slights, you know.
Denver is also the team that has the most confidence they can get along without Kobe, and Carmelo Anthony seems to have puffed himself up to the point where he might not be able to coexist with such a dominating player. They do have the money to make it happen, though.
I just can't see Kobe in Utah. He'd have a better chance of going to the Eastern Conference, IMO--has any of those teams hoarded cap space for this summer? I mean, aside from Atlanta?
I guess Utah might be the wild card, as a potential sign-and-trade partner for other teams...
San Antonio is another non-starter. They can't even attract regular free agents--possibly because the town isn't much by NBA standards, but more likely because Tim Duncan is a black hole, sucking credit for the team's success away from everybody else. If Kobe wanted some more of
that, he could just stay with the Lakers.