With all due respect 40 if thats the only way people can relax? I feel sorry for them.
The crazy thing is many of those people you are feeling sorry for would say they feel sorry for you.
When it comes to what another persson does with his or her free time I think the best way to approach it is "To each his own".
This thread could head right in the direction of the P&R board, but it hasn't which is cool for all involved.
If one guy wants to slam beers (in moderation of course, see Shane's post below), and another wants to read poetry then that is great. But the poetry reader saying he feels sorry for the beer drinker and calls him embarrassing is wrong and pretentious. In the other hand the beer drinker that calls reading poetry stupid, or "girlie" is being ignorant and close minded. The two should just let each other enjoy what they enjoy.
That all being said. It kinda brings the situation to light.
Some people are going to find those pictures VERY disturbing. So, even if I have no problem with the situation. Someone with the beliefs of Gaddabout (not to throw him under the bus) is completely appauled by this behavior at this age. An opinion I respect even if I don't agree.
So regardless this situation is bad. Whether you agree with it or not is moot.