Yeah and you can so long as you tee it up correctly. Asking for your bonus in 1 check, rather than split, is a valid comparison.
Demanding a raise is an irrelevant example BC this issue isn't about total dollars.
Everything isn’t about money, I know that’s hard to fathom. You continually recommend that he wise up, shut his mouth, and accept what’s being offered, as if you know him as a person or his underlying motivations. You’ve told him and the rest of us to “grow up” because adults recognize the power of no and tuck their tail between their legs and accept things without question. Yet I would argue that as adults, many of us learn that money isn’t necessarily the guiding principle in our lives. There’s a lot more that goes into being an adult than money or accepting no for an answer.
Accepting “no” unequivocally is what children do, not adults as you suggest. Adults have the ability to reason, weigh the consequences, and act accordingly. The freedom of having choice is powerful. You continually say SD “owns” him, that’s a fallacy. There’s a price to pay for every decision we make, but we still have choices and sometimes they don’t make sense to other people. It’s important to remember, as adults (right?), that our lives are what they are because of the choices we make. Nobody is making you work, nobody is making him play for SD, he isn’t owned by anyone—his contractual rights to play football may be, but that isn’t forever.
Many of us as adults have resisted opportunities that appear to be in our best interests, if you’re looking from the outside, but there’s more to it than that. I’ve turned down several higher paying jobs because I was required to relocate or travel a lot, it just isn’t for me, I want to be with my wife and family. I’m 46 years old, I’m free to make that choice, even if people looking in from the outside think I’m an idiot. My point is, those were my choices to make, not someone else’s, and it’s irrelevant what they think. This Bosa situation is no different.
Your point initially was that SD wasn’t breaking any legalities or the CBA and I’m quite sure we’ve all agreed on that point, about 20 pages ago. That was a good argument and I agreed with it, as I believe many others did. Then you went off the rails, switched lanes, and started comparing him to other players on SD, other teams, the CBA, and even delved into the private sector to compare his situation to Joe Schmoe working and wanting his annual salary in one fat installment. This is all nonsense. Bosa works for a union, the most powerful union in the country, and he and SD both are working within the parameters of the union. There’s nothing remotely similar to his bargaining position and that of “civilians” working a 9 to 5. Both sides are working within the confines of the collective BARGAINING agreement. (I had another 2 paragraphs on this I deleted, so if you want to go around about the differences I’d be happy to).
You can disagree with his position, although frankly I’m having a hard time understanding your own motivations. We should be praising him for standing on principle (whatever that is) and turning down the cash. It rarely happens, but some guy comes along and does it and you’re like what a dick. Really? Haven’t you ripped on Washington for taking the cash? Haven’t we all? But this **** does it different, AHEAD OF TIME, and you have steadfastly destroyed the dude and anyone who agrees with his stance. The hypocrisy of not just you but others who agree with you is astonishing.
But again, that’s his choice, I don’t know why that’s so hard for you to accept.
You talk about adults accepting things, the reality of things, then accept this, dude.
Other random thoughts:
1. Gates needs to shut the F up. He’s the one who sounds like a selfish player, and I like the dude, but he’s wrong. They work for a union, if Gates gave any poo about anyone other than himself, he would want his brothers to get as much money as possible.
2. Players shouldn’t talk about another player’s salary. They work for a union, they’re all in it together. Complaining about salary only hurts yourself—unless you’re an aging and bitter HOF TE apparently.
3. Bosa has a good agent who’s doing him wrong this time, and SD has a general manager who has shown himself to be an idiot even before this draft.
4. I don’t think Bosa wants to play for SD. Agents aside, I really don’t think he wants to play for them. Ya’ll say he’ll sign, and maybe he will, to get his money in the shortest time frame possible, but it’s obvious he has an issue with SD in general. You don’t hold out for this unless you have a serious issue.
5. SD is the dregs of football, they’re poorly run, much like we were when I started going to games when they came here. They’re awful. Honestly, they’ve never been the same since they got rid of Shotty. Didn’t they fire him after an 11-5 season or 12-4, something like that? They’ve never been the same since then. The only person I feel bad for is Phillip Rivers, he’s an elite QB on a bad team. Gates can suck ass after his comments, don’t care if he’s going to the HOF, he’s a punk, Kellen Winslow is much better*.
*The older Kellen Winslow, the TE who could actually play football. He’s still the best TE SD ever had in their history. Gates can suck a fat one. Kellen Winslow is the poo and always will be in my eyes. Watching him when I was a kid, just do these historic and unprecedented things, lay it all on the field, he was an inspiration to me. He made me love football and he and Don Coryell transitioned me from hard-nosed running football to high octane passing football. They brought me into the future, they drug me with them, dragged me to the finish line.